With K-Love playing on the radio and a few Cracker Barrel Restaurants strategically marked on our map, my husband and I headed out early last Thursday for a five-day road trip to Oxford, Mississippi.
Our trip had been planned for weeks. Oxford is our daughter-in-law Sarah’s hometown and the home of The University of Mississippi (Ole Miss). She and our son, Logan, are both students in the MBA program there. We had been missing our kids and couldn’t wait to see them.
It was dark by the time we rolled across the Mississippi state line. Tired and by then a bit silly, we entertained ourselves the last hour with song…
“M I S – S I S – S I P P I” (the childhood spelling song), when we saw the Welcome to Mississippi sign.
“Oh black water, keep on rolling, Mississippi moon won’t you keep on shining on me…” in response to the heavy moon that rose on the horizon before us. It was bold and full, inviting us to come closer. (Wish I could have taken a photo…it was spectacular.)
We followed that with a bad rendition of “Ode to Billy Joe,” as we crossed over the Tallahatchie River Bridge.
Over the next three days we talked, laughed, ate (and ate some more), and toured most of the city.
We visited “The Square” — Oxford’s historic downtown district, shopped in the oldest department store in the south, visited Rowan Oak, the home of author William Faulkner, watched an Ole Miss football game (Hotty Toddy), and drove every back road and side street there was to drive.
I had not realized so many celebrities owned homes in Oxford. (I liked the Mannings’ best — I didn’t photograph it because it seemed intrusive…but trust me…it was large and white and stunning.)
The rolling hills, narrow streets, and historic buildings enchanted us.
The architecture, variety of flora, and sheer beauty of the campus impressed us.
Best of all, we were able to spend time with our kids in the place they now call home.
We learned that…
A low-slung front porch is standard architecture…
Sweet tea is sold alongside soft drinks at football games…
The word grocery might really mean restaurant…
Tabasco and grits go with everything…
Local accents are as thick as the butter you spread on your cornbread.
And eating is the favorite pastime (besides cheering for Ole Miss football).
One of the sweetest moments for me happened on Sunday morning.
My son leads worship at the church they attend. (Sitting just off a highway in the country, it literally snuggles onto a hill and has side windows that look out on the surrounding woods. Very beautiful.) He had asked his dad to join him on the guitar. That is a sight I’m used to, the two of them playing in public together.
What surprised me was my reaction to Sarah joining with them. Her sweet voice coupled with the sight of all three of them together on the platform, singing about Jesus, made me teary-eyed. It was almost more than this momma could stand. I had to run to the bathroom to get a tissue so my mascara wouldn’t smear.
We closed our visit with a private tour of the Lyceum – the oldest building on the Ole Miss campus, followed by a trip to the famous Taylor Grocery, the best catfish place in the south. (Read the story Cook’s Country did on Taylor’s here.) There we visited with Sarah’s family, read the writing on the wall, listened to the blues and ate more food than we really needed.
It was a perfect ending to a jam-packed weekend.
Monday morning we hugged our kids goodbye and started the long drive home.
We made a short detour in Memphis for some barbeque, a quick walk down Beale Street and a visit to the Gibson Guitar Factory. (Of course!)
As we pulled on to the interstate, heading east to Oklahoma, Larry said, “We’re finally headed home…now the only thing left to stop for is Cracker Barrel.
I agreed.
Hope y’all enjoyed our trip. We sure did!
Mary Keesee says
I felt like I was on the road with you!!! So happy you were able to go! xoxoxoxo
Kathy Kennedy says
Looks like a wonderful trip. So glad your babies are doing so well. God has great plans for them.
Bea Kennedy says
Again, I loved it, and, no, I am not partial…… Thanks. You make reading enjoyable….